Deenie by Judy Blume.
Judy Blume has a true gift for getting down whack-job parents and the screwed up kids they create. You might think Deenie is a story about a girl with sciliosis, but in Ms. Blume's own words,
- I think of the story as one about parental expectations. Deenie's mother says, Deenie's the beauty, Helen's the brain. What happens when a parent pigeonholes her children that way?
Goes to show you don't have to be unloving or abusive to raise up a messed up kid. I got the impression Deenie and Helen will get past it, eventually. Maybe with a little therapy. It sure makes me think about my own parenting weaknesses and long string of failures. Good intentions and the road to hell and all.
This is a book I'd recommend to any young teenager. If possible, read it in a book group with discussion. In a perfect world, with a little guidance from an older person, say a big sister or brother.
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